This really is a beautiful purse. However, it is very stiff and heavy. Had I seen it in the store, I would not have purchased it but that is no reflection on the seller, it’s just the way it was made. I have learned an important lesson here when it comes to certain items, it’s better to purchase them in person so you really get a feel for them. I plan on getting something to put on the material that will help it to soften up a bit.