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Happiness is an elusive quality for many people in today's complex, often stressful world. There is however a powerful but little kwn secret in the pursuit of happiness. It can take a moment to learn and a lifetime to perfect. It is simply this; to t mind what happens and t react. The key to t minding what happens is to learn the gentle art of t taking offence at the things that happen to you in the course of your daily life, and t reacting to the provocation. Seen from ather angle, the idea is to have low expectations. In a world where many people grow up with a sense of entitlement, this is much easier said than done because we have base-lined our expectations at a high level. Adding to this is the commercial world that sets a high standard of customer service as the necessary price of selling you something ahead of their competitors. We all enjoy good customer service, and feel we have a right to it, but consider how this might be distorting your perception of reality. They are only being nice to you so you will give them some money. The world is really t that nice in actual fact. Some of the time, even most of the time, our high expectations are met. But there will always be times when they are t met, and then you will be offended and aggrieved and trouble will inevitably follow. How dare you treat me this way? On the other hand, when your expectations are low, you are seldom disappointed and often delighted. There is an ermous pay-off for people who manage to t take offence. Not only do they t go through life feeling angry and aggrieved, they start to see the world in a much more positive light. When you allow the world to be what it is without trying to change it, you access an ermous wealth of intuitive kwledge that you can enjoy and use to live a happy, harmonious life. This is strategic n-action, and it is a powerful yet under-rated method of living and being effective in the world. In cultures where action is favoured over inaction, like in many western countries, direct action is considered a virtue while inaction is little more than laziness or cowardice. There is an advantage in being more subtle and nuanced in our understanding. There is a time for both action and inaction. Non-action gives access to a deeper intuitive awareness than that gained through action, since kwledge that comes through action is obscured by situation-specific reactions. Settle in for the ride as I reveal to you the secret of strategic n-action in the pursuit of happiness.

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PublisherCreatespace Independent Publishing Platform

ISBN-101483958299

ISBN-139781483958293

eBay Product ID (ePID)189542568

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Content NoteBlack & White Illustrations

Author BiographyDavid Tuffley PhD is a Lecturer and researcher at Griffith University in Australia. The psychology of leadership was the topic of his PhD. David has a broad range of interests; Psychology, Anthropology, Philosophy, Ancient and Modern History, Linguistics, Rhetoric, Comparative Religions, Architectural History, Environments and Ecosystems.

FormatPaperback / Softback

LanguageEnglish

Author(s)David Tuffley

Date of Publication26/03/2013

Format DetailsTrade Paperback (Us) ,Unsewn / Adhesive Bound

SubjectPsychiatry & Clinical Psychology: Professional

ImprintCreatespace Independent Publishing Platform

Country of PublicationUnited States