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- Book Title
- After the Fight: Using Your Disagreements to Build a Stronger Rel
- ISBN
- 9781572300262
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Product Identifiers
Publisher
Guilford Publications
ISBN-10
1572300264
ISBN-13
9781572300262
eBay Product ID (ePID)
807449
Product Key Features
Number of Pages
326 Pages
Publication Name
After the Fight : Using Your Disagreements to Build a Stronger Relationship
Language
English
Subject
Social Work, Psychotherapy / Couples & Family, General, Mental Health
Publication Year
1995
Type
Textbook
Subject Area
Family & Relationships, Social Science, Psychology, Medical
Format
Trade Paperback
Dimensions
Item Height
0.8 in
Item Weight
17 Oz
Item Length
9 in
Item Width
6 in
Additional Product Features
Intended Audience
Scholarly & Professional
LCCN
93-004846
Reviews
"I highly recommend it to therapists but also to researchers interested in the impact of concealing personal feelings in relationships."--Contemporary Psychology, "For the seasoned therapist the book is an adventure into the mind of the therapist's journey, always interesting and at times even amusing. For the less experienced therapist, the book fully and clearly describes major relationship dynamics as they are played out in the life of a couple, while presenting a very detailed therapeutic approach....The book is an extremely useful aid for those doing couple therapy."--Journal of Sex Education and Therapy, For the seasoned therapist the book is an adventure into the mind of the therapist's journey, always interesting and at times even amusing. For the less experienced therapist, the book fully and clearly describes major relationship dynamics as they are played out in the life of a couple, while presenting a very detailed therapeutic approach....The book is an extremely useful aid for those doing couple therapy., "An inspirational book. It is one of the most unique and creative books about couples I have ever read. It captures not only the subtleties of couple interactions, but also the nuances of couples therapy. I plan to assign this book to all of my graduate students, and will open it myself whenever I need to be reminded of how exciting it is to study and treat couples." --Neil S. Jacobson, Ph.D., University of Washington "ReadingAfter the Fightis the next best thing to being in the room with Daniel Wile, widely renowned as a creative and masterful couples' therapist....Wile shows a remarkable capacity to put words to the vague and amorphous thoughts of the partners as well as the therapist.... He lets us in on his innermost thoughts and quandaries as a therapist and offers a multitude of examples and direct dialogue to make his approach come alive." --Gayla Margolin, Ph.D., Professor of Psychology, University of Southern California, "For the seasoned therapist the book is an adventure into the mind of the therapist's journey, always interesting and at time s even amusing. For the less experienced therapist, the book fully and clearly describes major relationship dynamics as they are played out in the life of a couple, while presenting a very detailed therapeutic approach....the book is an extremely useful aid for those doing couple therapy."--Journal of Sex Education and Therapy, "An inspirational book. It is one of the most unique and creative books about couples I have ever read. It captures not only the subtleties of couple interactions, but also the nuances of couples therapy. I plan to assign this book to all of my graduate students, and will open it myself whenever I need to be reminded of how exciting it is to study and treat couples." --Neil S. Jacobson, Ph.D., University of Washington "Reading After the Fight is the next best thing to being in the room with Daniel Wile, widely renowned as a creative and masterful couples' therapist....Wile shows a remarkable capacity to put words to the vague and amorphous thoughts of the partners as well as the therapist.... He lets us in on his innermost thoughts and quandaries as a therapist and offers a multitude of examples and direct dialogue to make his approach come alive." --Gayla Margolin, Ph.D., Professor of Psychology, University of Southern California, "I highly recommend it to therapists but also to researchers interested in the impact of concealing personal feelings in relationships." -Contemporary Psychology "...a book of great originality and humanity. The format is lively and fascinating....This is one of life's pleasures that is actually good for you."-Paul Wachtel, author of Therapeutic Communication "For the seasoned therapist the book is an adventure into the mind of the therapist's journey, always interesting and at time s even amusing. For the less experienced therapist, the book fully and clearly describes major relationship dynamics as they are played out in the life of a couple, while presenting a very detailed therapeutic approach....the book is an extremely useful aid for those doing couple therapy." -Journal of Sex Education and Therapy, I highly recommend it to therapists but also to researchers interested in the impact of concealing personal feelings in relationships., "The book is unique in its detailed description of the moment-by-moment thoughts and feelings that a hypothetical couple goes through in coping with their relationship problems....I highly recommend it to therapists but also to researchers interested in the impact of concealing personal feelings in relationships." --Contemporary Psychology
Synopsis
What do partners do after a fight? If theyre like most people, they apologize: "Im sorry. I had a bad day and I took it out on you." Or, they wake up the next morning and pretend that nothing happened, hoping their partner will do the same. In neither case do they talk about the fight. Theyre too afraid that doing so will simply rekindle it--and theyre right; it probably would. But since they dont talk about the fight, nothing ever really gets resolved. Daniel B. Wile, author of Couples Therapy and After the Honeymoon, devotes this entire book to an analysis of a single night in the life of a couple, Marie and Paul. By tapping into their self-talk (their ongoing conversations with themselves), he discovers what starts, escalates, and rekindles fights--and also, what potentially allows for a useful conversation about a fight. Wile reveals the half-thoughts and half-feelings that generally go unnoticed: the anxious flashes; depressive waves; two-second, self-directed diatribes; and two-second mental divorces., Daniel B. Wile, author of Couples Therapy and After the Honeymoon, devotes this entire book to an analysis of a single night in the life of one couple., What do partners do after a fight? If they're like most people, they apologize: "I'm sorry. I had a bad day and I took it out on you." Or, they wake up the next morning and pretend that nothing happened, hoping their partner will do the same. In neither case do they talk about the fight. They're too afraid that doing so will simply rekindle it--and they're right; it probably would. But since they don't talk about the fight, nothing ever really gets resolved. Daniel B. Wile, author of Couples Therapy and After the Honeymoon, devotes this entire book to an analysis of a single night in the life of a couple, Marie and Paul. By tapping into their self-talk (their ongoing conversations with themselves), he discovers what starts, escalates, and rekindles fights--and also, what potentially allows for a useful conversation about a fight. Wile reveals the half-thoughts and half-feelings that generally go unnoticed: the anxious flashes; depressive waves; two-second, self-directed diatribes; and two-second mental divorces.
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