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To Be a Man: A Guide to True Masculine Power by Masters, Robert Augustus, Ph.d.

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Hardcover
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1 lbs
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ISBN
9781622032297

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Product Identifiers

Publisher
Sounds true, Incorporated
ISBN-10
1622032292
ISBN-13
9781622032297
eBay Product ID (ePID)
201683229

Product Key Features

Book Title
To Be a Man : a Guide to True Masculine Power
Number of Pages
320 Pages
Language
English
Publication Year
2015
Topic
Developmental / Adulthood & Aging, Life Stages / General, Men's Studies, General, Human Sexuality (See Also Social Science / Human Sexuality)
Genre
Family & Relationships, Social Science, Psychology
Author
Robert Augustus Masters
Format
Hardcover

Dimensions

Item Height
1 in
Item Weight
19 Oz
Item Length
9.2 in
Item Width
6.2 in

Additional Product Features

Intended Audience
Trade
LCCN
2014-029390
Dewey Edition
23
Reviews
"As a pioneer in the emerging men's movement, Masters speaks in a clear, no-nonsense voice as he calls men to begin a new hero's journey of self-discovery and redefinition in which anger and compassion coexist, where emotional literacy thrives, where innate raw power can be embraced without sacrificing vulnerability, and where shame isn't channeled into aggression. The last section, almost a third of the book, is devoted to the topic of sex, including in-depth discussions of pornography, rape, and sexual acting-out. There is also a chapter devoted to gay men, making it clear that his discussion is not limited by preexisting gender ideas of any kind." -- Anna Jedrziewski , Retailing Insight, "THE classic handbook for men . . . To Be a Man calls out the 'warrior' to do battle inside, to find authentic masculine power, allowing truly intimate relationships with women, other men, and self." -- Bill Kauth , cofounder of The ManKind Project® and author of A Circle of Men and coauthor (with Zoe Alowan) of We Need Each Other "To Be A Man : Every man should read it as autobiography, every woman should read it as revelation, and our culture should embrace it as a healing balm." -- Harville Hendrix, PhD , author of Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples and coauthor (with Helen LaKelly Hunt, PhD) of Making Marriage Simple "In this essential book, Robert Augustus Masters challenges current ideas about what it means to be a man , and explores crucial gender issues that affect every man, boy, woman, and girl on our planet. By uncoupling anger from aggression, sexuality from rape and porn, and masculinity from brutality, Robert supports men and boys in reclaiming the sacredness, magnificence, and true power of healthy masculinity." -- Karla McLaren , author of The Language of Emotions and The Art of Empathy "A masterpiece of transformational wisdom." -- Alan Clements , author of Instinct for Freedom and A Future to Believe In "Masters' insights populate every page of this compelling book, and offer creative ways of thinking about many of our era's most complex and controversial issues, among them pornography; sexual violence; militarism and war; the effects of trauma on men's psyches and identities; and much more." -- Jackson Katz, PhD , author of The Macho Paradox and Leading Men , and creator of the award-winning films Tough Guise and Tough Guise 2 "A brilliant, compassionate, paradigm-exploding instruction manual for any man--or woman--on the planet. What a fearless and amazing book!" -- Nancy Dreyfus, PsyD , author of Talk to Me Like I'm Someone You Love, "THE classic handbook for men . . . To Be a Man  calls out the 'warrior' to do battle inside, to find authentic masculine power, allowing truly intimate relationships with women, other men, and self." -- Bill Kauth , cofounder of The ManKind Project and author of A Circle of Men and coauthor (with Zoe Alowan) of We Need Each Other    "To Be A Man : Every man should read it as autobiography, every woman should read it as revelation, and our culture should embrace it as a healing balm." -- Harville Hendrix, PhD , author of Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples and coauthor (with Helen LaKelly Hunt, PhD) of Making Marriage Simple "In this essential book, Robert Augustus Masters challenges current ideas about what it means to be a man , and explores crucial gender issues that affect every man, boy, woman, and girl on our planet. By uncoupling anger from aggression, sexuality from rape and porn, and masculinity from brutality, Robert supports men and boys in reclaiming the sacredness, magnificence, and true power of healthy masculinity." -- Karla McLaren , author of The Language of Emotions and The Art of Empathy "A masterpiece of transformational wisdom." -- Alan Clements , author of Instinct for Freedom and A Future to Believe In   "Masters' insights populate every page of this compelling book, and offer creative ways of thinking about many of our era's most complex and controversial issues, among them pornography; sexual violence; militarism and war; the effects of trauma on men's psyches and identities; and much more." -- Jackson Katz, PhD , author of The Macho Paradox and Leading Men ,  and creator of the award-winning films Tough Guise and Tough Guise 2   "A brilliant, compassionate, paradigm-exploding instruction manual for any man--or woman--on the planet. What a fearless and amazing book!" -- Nancy Dreyfus, PsyD , author of Talk To Me Like I'm Someone You Love  , "THE classic handbook for men . . . To Be a Man  calls out the 'warrior' to do battle inside, to find authentic masculine power, allowing truly intimate relationships with women, other men, and self." -- Bill Kauth , cofounder of The ManKind Project® and author of A Circle of Men and coauthor (with Zoe Alowan) of We Need Each Other    "To Be A Man : Every man should read it as autobiography, every woman should read it as revelation, and our culture should embrace it as a healing balm." -- Harville Hendrix, PhD , author of Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples and coauthor (with Helen LaKelly Hunt, PhD) of Making Marriage Simple "In this essential book, Robert Augustus Masters challenges current ideas about what it means to be a man , and explores crucial gender issues that affect every man, boy, woman, and girl on our planet. By uncoupling anger from aggression, sexuality from rape and porn, and masculinity from brutality, Robert supports men and boys in reclaiming the sacredness, magnificence, and true power of healthy masculinity." -- Karla McLaren , author of The Language of Emotions and The Art of Empathy "A masterpiece of transformational wisdom." -- Alan Clements , author of Instinct for Freedom and A Future to Believe In   "Masters' insights populate every page of this compelling book, and offer creative ways of thinking about many of our era's most complex and controversial issues, among them pornography; sexual violence; militarism and war; the effects of trauma on men's psyches and identities; and much more." -- Jackson Katz, PhD , author of The Macho Paradox and Leading Men ,  and creator of the award-winning films Tough Guise and Tough Guise 2   "A brilliant, compassionate, paradigm-exploding instruction manual for any man--or woman--on the planet. What a fearless and amazing book!" -- Nancy Dreyfus, PsyD , author of Talk To Me Like I'm Someone You Love  , "As a pioneer in the emerging men's movement, Masters speaks in a clear, no-nonsense voice as he calls men to begin a new hero's journey of self-discovery and redefinition in which anger and compassion coexist, where emotional literacy thrives, where innate raw power can be embraced without sacrificing vulnerability, and where shame isn't channeled into aggression. The last section, almost a third of the book, is devoted to the topic of sex, including in-depth discussions of pornography, rape, and sexual acting-out. There is also a chapter devoted to gay men, making it clear that his discussion is not limited by preexisting gender ideas of any kind." -- Retailing Insight, Anna Jedrziewski, Praise for To Be a Man "Any book that unveils the male mystique with empathy and compassion, helping men understand themselves and helping women understand men, and that helps the culture understand the masculine dilemma should be hailed as a miracle. This is what Robert Augustus Masters does in To Be a Man . Every man should read it as autobiography, every woman should read it as revelation, and our culture should embrace it as a healing balm." -- Harville Hendrix, PhD , author of Getting the Love You Want and co-author (with Helen LaKelly Hunt, PhD) of Making Marriage Simple     " A masterpiece of transformational wisdom." -- Alan Clements , author of Instinct for Freedom and A Future to Believe In   "Robert Augustus Masters has written a powerful guide for men that integrates rigor and receptivity, aggression and authority, vulnerability and potency. With highly developed emotional intelligence, and a nuanced understanding of adult development including the importance of shadow work, Masters delivers a vision of mature, embodied male empowerment.  To Be a  Man  is a fearless book from a master of psycho-emotional healing and awakening." --  Diane Musho Hamilton , author of  Everything Is Workable: A Zen Approach to Conflict Resolution   "Masters'' insights populate every page of this compelling book, and offer creative ways of thinking about many of our era''s most complex and controversial issues, among them, pornography, sexual violence, militarism and war, the effects of trauma on men''s psyches and identities, and much more." -- Jackson Katz, PhD , author of The Macho Paradox and Leading Men , and creator of the award-winning films Tough Guise and Tough Guise 2  "In this essential book, Robert Augustus Masters challenges current ideas about what it means to be a man, and explores crucial gender issues that affect every man, boy, woman, and girl on our planet. By uncoupling anger from aggression, sexuality from rape and porn, and masculinity from brutality, Robert supports men and boys in reclaiming the sacredness, magnificence, and true power of healthy masculinity."  -- Karla McLaren , author of The Language of Emotions and The Art of Empathy "After thirty years of pioneering men''s work, if I were to write the classic handbook for men--this would be it. To Be a Man  calls out the ''warrior'' to do battle inside, to find authentic masculine power, allowing truly intimate relationships with women, other men, and self." -- Bill Kauth , cofounder of The ManKind Project and author of A Circle of Men and We Need Each Other   "To Be a Man  is a book every man should read, especially if they long for their deepest sense of inner peace and wholeness. It''s honest. Raw. Thorough. Deep. Such an important book!" --  Mary Allen , author of  The Power of Inner Choice   "I have rarely heard such textured thinking from anyone: subtle energetic distinctions on the continuum of destructive and wholesome anger; the willingness to de-normalize pornography and a range of sexual and nonsexual immaturities that many would defend as ''being myself;'' the willingness to boldly put happiness as the basis of grown-up sex. The world has rarely seen a man who has worked his own process as Masters has, producing a brilliant, compassionate, paradigm-exploding instruction manual for any man -- or woman -- on the planet. What a totally beautiful, brilliant, fearless, and amazing book!" -- Nancy Dreyfus, Psy.D , author of Talk to Me Like I''m Someone You Love   "To Be a Man dissects the thr, "THE classic handbook for men . . . To Be a Man calls out the 'warrior' to do battle inside, to find authentic masculine power, allowing truly intimate relationships with women, other men, and self." -- Bill Kauth , cofounder of The ManKind Project and author of A Circle of Men and coauthor (with Zoe Alowan) of We Need Each Other "To Be A Man : Every man should read it as autobiography, every woman should read it as revelation, and our culture should embrace it as a healing balm." -- Harville Hendrix, PhD , author of Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples and coauthor (with Helen LaKelly Hunt, PhD) of Making Marriage Simple "In this essential book, Robert Augustus Masters challenges current ideas about what it means to be a man , and explores crucial gender issues that affect every man, boy, woman, and girl on our planet. By uncoupling anger from aggression, sexuality from rape and porn, and masculinity from brutality, Robert supports men and boys in reclaiming the sacredness, magnificence, and true power of healthy masculinity." -- Karla McLaren , author of The Language of Emotions and The Art of Empathy "A masterpiece of transformational wisdom." -- Alan Clements , author of Instinct for Freedom and A Future to Believe In "Masters' insights populate every page of this compelling book, and offer creative ways of thinking about many of our era's most complex and controversial issues, among them pornography; sexual violence; militarism and war; the effects of trauma on men's psyches and identities; and much more." -- Jackson Katz, PhD , author of The Macho Paradox and Leading Men , and creator of the award-winning films Tough Guise and Tough Guise 2 "A brilliant, compassionate, paradigm-exploding instruction manual for any man--or woman--on the planet. What a fearless and amazing book!" -- Nancy Dreyfus, PsyD , author of Talk to Me Like I'm Someone You Love
Number of Volumes
1 vol.
Dewey Decimal
155.3/32
Synopsis
I've got it all--a great job, relationship, and lifestyle--so why do I feel so dissatisfied and disconnected? Why am I not happier in my intimate relationships? How do I become more powerful--without becoming that jerk everyone dislikes? Robert Augustus Masters has helped thousands of men address and work through such issues. What he's found is that the common solution to these dilemmas is challenging yet clear: we must face our unresolved wounds, shame, and whatever else is holding us back, bringing "our head, heart, and guts into full-blooded alignment." With To Be a Man, this acclaimed psychotherapist and relationship expert offers a groundbreaking and deeply insightful guide to masculine power and fulfillment. To Be a Man clarifies what's needed to enter a manhood as strongly empowered as it's vulnerable, as emotionally literate as it's unapologetically alive--a manhood at home with truly intimate relationship. In this book, readers will explore: * How your past may be dominating your present * Shame in its healthy and unhealthy forms, and how to make wise use of it * How vulnerability can be a source of strength * Emotional literacy--an essential skill for relational well-being * Releasing sex from the obligation to make you feel better * How to disempower your inner critic * Bringing your shadow (whatever you've disowned in yourself) out of the dark * Embodying your natural heroism and persisting regardless of fear * What women need from men * Understanding and outgrowing pornography * Entering the heartland of true masculine power If you've read your share of popular advice on relationships and being a man--but realize on a gut level that it's going to take some serious inner work--here's a great guide to that most rewarding of challenges: doing what's needed to fully embody your authentic manhood., I ve got it all a great job, relationship, and lifestyle so why do I feel so dissatisfied and disconnected?Why am I not happier in my intimate relationships?How do I become more powerful without becoming that jerk everyone dislikes?Robert Augustus Masters has helped thousands of men address and work through, I've got it all--a great job, relationship, and lifestyle--so why do I feel so dissatisfied and disconnected? Why am I not happier in my intimate relationships? How do I become more powerful--without becoming that jerk everyone dislikes? Robert Augustus Masters has helped thousands of men address and work through such issues. What he's found is that the common solution to these dilemmas is challenging yet clear: we must face our unresolved wounds, shame, and whatever else is holding us back, bringing "our head, heart, and guts into full-blooded alignment." With To Be a Man , this acclaimed psychotherapist and relationship expert offers a groundbreaking and deeply insightful guide to masculine power and fulfillment. To Be a Man clarifies what's needed to enter a manhood as strongly empowered as it's vulnerable, as emotionally literate as it's unapologetically alive--a manhood at home with truly intimate relationship. In this book, readers will explore: - How your past may be dominating your present - Shame in its healthy and unhealthy forms, and how to make wise use of it - How vulnerability can be a source of strength - Emotional literacy--an essential skill for relational well-being - Releasing sex from the obligation to make you feel better - How to disempower your inner critic - Bringing your shadow (whatever you've disowned in yourself) out of the dark - Embodying your natural heroism and persisting regardless of fear - What women need from men - Understanding and outgrowing pornography - Entering the heartland of true masculine power If you've read your share of popular advice on relationships and being a man--but realize on a gut level that it's going to take some serious inner work--here's a great guide to that most rewarding of challenges: doing what's needed to fully embody your authentic manhood., I ve got it all a great job, relationship, and lifestyle so why do I feel so dissatisfied and disconnected?Why am I not happier in my intimate relationships?How do I become more powerful without becoming that jerk everyone dislikes?Robert Augustus Masters has helped thousands of men address and work through such issues. What he s found is that the common solution to these dilemmas is challenging yet clear: we must face our unresolved wounds, shame, and whatever else is holding us back, bringing our head, heart, and guts into full-blooded alignment. WithTo Be a Man, this acclaimed psychotherapist and relationship expert offers a groundbreaking and deeply insightful guide to masculine power and fulfillment.To Be a Manclarifies what s needed to enter a manhood as strongly empowered as it s vulnerable, as emotionally literate as it s unapologetically alive a manhood at home with truly intimate relationship. In this book, readers will explore: How your past may be dominating your present Shame in its healthy and unhealthy forms, and how to make wise use of it How vulnerability can be a source of strength Emotional literacy an essential skill for relational well-being Releasing sex from the obligation to make you feel better How to disempower your inner critic Bringing your shadow (whatever you ve disowned in yourself) out of the dark Embodying your natural heroism and persisting regardless of fear What women need from men Understanding and outgrowing pornography Entering the heartland of true masculine power If you ve read your share of popular advice on relationships and being a man but realize on a gut level that it s going to take some serious inner work here s a great guide to that most rewarding of challenges: doing what s needed to fully embody your authentic manhood. "
LC Classification Number
HQ1090.M3826 2015

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